Is it true that one cannot love if they%26#039;ve never been hurt? If your partner has never loved anyone in their life or been hurt, and they were socially limited in life.......brought up in an inexpressive culture, does their experience affect their emotional maturity. Example like their put you way too high, almost unrealistic, moody and change their mind way too extreme? I was someone%26#039;s first love literally, they turned out to be such a kid........should I blame myself for not noticing this at the beginning? |||This has happened to me as well and many friends i know. Dont blame yourself and dont blame him. Because it was his first time, im sure he had issues and questions on how to go about handling the situation. But boys are even more clueless than what we are. I suppose he reacted in a way he saw fit and sometimes they act in certain ways and realise later... %26quot;damn why did i do that%26quot;
I think one can love without being hurt... shew there are so many sayings to the word love. My experience is love to the fullest when you have the opportunity and if it doesnt work out- walk away knowing that you gave it your best and that when you receive an opportunity again, learn from the %26quot;mistakes%26quot; you think you have made and love again.
I hope this helps in some or other way!
Good luck!|||Well no thats not true my first love i had never really been hurt before but after losing her.. jesus i ddint know how bad it could be but atleast im prepared for pain in my search for love|||No, not at all. I%26#039;m my current girlfriend%26#039;s first %26quot;love,%26quot; or anything for that matter. We started dating at 19 and have been together for 2 1/2 years. I really think it is all dependent on the individual.
Let%26#039;s face it, there are men and women who have had a lot of %26quot;experience,%26quot; yet still act like children.|||Loneliness is a very powerful motivator . It blinds us and can make us do things that we would never consider doing normally .
It can mask all mistakes . Loneliness will drive us crazy if we let it .
This is how we end up with the wrong person . And why we stay with the wrong person . |||it can but i wouldnt let this get you. you control your own destiny
